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The short answer

Do not move out to be the good guy without a plan; do not stop paying anything; do not hide money or say anything in a text you would not say to the judge. Get the house valued in writing, get the support numbers from the guideline, decide the house on those numbers, and get one neutral real estate team and your own attorney. Then take care of yourself like it is a job, because for a year it is.

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Do I have to move out of the house?

No. Neither spouse has to leave unless a court orders it, and Colorado has no abandonment rule because it is a no-fault state. Moving out does not cost you the equity. It does cost you a second rent while you still owe half the mortgage, and it sets a parenting routine the court may keep. The full answer.

Can I keep the house?

If you can carry it alone and buy out her share. Equity, affordability, desirability, in that order; a lender confirms the affordability piece before any deadline is written. The buyout math.

Will I get 50/50 with my kids?

Colorado decides parenting time on the children’s best interests with no preference for either parent. Equal or near-equal time is common when both parents can provide it and live close enough for the schedule to work. Where you live after the divorce is part of that. Parenting time and the house.

How much will I pay?

Maintenance: 40 percent of combined income minus her income, times 80 or 75 percent, for a term tied to marriage length, advisory. Child support: both incomes, the statutory schedule, credited for every overnight under the 2026 formula. Worked examples.

Can she take half my retirement? My business?

The part earned during the marriage is marital and divisible, whoever’s name is on it. What you owned before, and inheritances to you, stay separate if you can trace them. The house is often the asset you trade to keep the business or the pension. Business and retirement.

I am 55. Is it too late to start over?

No, and the money works differently after 50: pensions, Social Security, health insurance, a paid-off house. Divorce after 50 for men.

Will the judge side with her?

Colorado judges divide property equitably and decide parenting on the children’s interests. The person who follows the injunction, pays what the orders say, keeps a log and stays civil in writing is the one the court believes. That is a plan you control.

Who do I even talk to?

An attorney or the free self-help center for the forms; a mediator; a financial professional if there is a business or a pension; us for the house; and someone for you: a counselor, a friend, 988. Resources.

The first two weeks

DoOpen your own account and card; freeze your credit; photograph joint balances; keep paying the mortgage and the bills you have always paid; write down the parenting routine as it actually is; get the house valued in writing; call a lawyer before you agree to anything.
Do notMove out on a Tuesday because it felt right; stop paying to make a point; move money; cancel insurance; post about it; put anything in a text you would not say in court; agree to a refinance deadline a lender has not checked.
The injunctionFrom filing and service, neither of you can sell, borrow against or hide marital property, cancel insurance, or take the kids out of state without consent or an order. It binds both of you equally.
SupportAsk for temporary orders early if you are the lower earner; if you are the higher earner, know the guideline number before mediation so you are not negotiating blind.

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