Colorado divorce information and decision support
Divorce changes more than your marital status.
Start with the one question almost everyone asks first: what happens to the house? Then the rest: what it costs, how long it takes, what you can afford afterward. This is the free Colorado divorce workshop, rebuilt so you can read it on your phone tonight without telling anyone.
Call or text 303-955-4220. A live person answers. Not a robot, not a phone tree.
Plain-language education from a Colorado real estate team. Not legal, tax, lending or financial advice.
Keep it, sell it, or buy the other one out
What each option really costs in Denver-metro numbers, and the one deadline that catches people.
02 · Property and debtEquitable is not equal
How Colorado splits what you own and owe, and why the date matters.
03 · Income and supportMaintenance has a formula
What the Colorado guideline says, how long it lasts, and whether a lender will count it.
04 · The process91 days is the minimum
Filing, the automatic injunction, disclosures, mediation, decree. Step by step.
05 · After 50Gray divorce is different
Retirement accounts, Social Security, health insurance, and a house that is most of what you own.
Why does the house decide so much of the rest?
In most Colorado divorces the house is the biggest asset, the biggest debt and the biggest monthly bill, all at once. Decide it first and the rest of the math gets easier. Decide it last and you can end up keeping a house you cannot refinance, or selling one you did not have to.
A home is an asset, a debt, a monthly cost and an emotional anchor. “Can I keep the house?” sounds like one question. In practice it is title, mortgage liability, equity, valuation, a possible buyout, refinance qualification, taxes, timing, and what each person can afford next. The workshop groups all of that into five connected decision areas, and so does this site.
The marital home
Can either person afford to keep it, what would a buyout take, and when does selling need to be on the table?
Start here02Property and debt
What has to be identified, documented and valued before anything can be divided.
How Colorado divides it03Income, support and cash flow
What each household has to cover after housing, support, insurance and taxes.
The maintenance formula04Parenting and routines
Two households, one schedule, and where each person needs to live for it to work.
Keeping the house for the kids05After the decree
Credit, reserves, retirement and the ability to borrow again. Decisions made now set this up.
Buying again06Divorce after 50
Long marriages, a paid-down house, pensions and Social Security. A different set of questions.
Gray divorce in ColoradoWhat do people ask first?
These are the questions that come up in the room every month, phrased the way people actually type them. Tap one for the short answer, then follow the link for the full page.
Can my spouse sell the house without me?
No. Once a Colorado divorce case is filed and served, an automatic temporary injunction stops either spouse from selling, transferring or borrowing against marital property outside ordinary living expenses without the other’s written consent or a court order. What the injunction covers.
Who gets the house in a Colorado divorce?
Nobody automatically. Colorado divides marital property equitably, which means fairly, not necessarily 50/50. The house usually goes one of four ways: sold and split, one spouse buys the other out, a delayed sale, or both keep it for a while. How judges and couples decide.
Who pays the mortgage while the divorce is pending?
Whoever the temporary orders say, and until then usually whoever has been paying. The lender does not care what the decree says: a missed payment lands on both credit reports. Protecting your credit during the case.
Can I keep the house and the low mortgage rate?
Sometimes. A buyout usually means a cash-out refinance at today’s rate, but a HELOC for the buyout amount or an assumption of the existing loan can keep the old rate. Whether you qualify on one income is the real question. The buyout math.
Should we sell before or after the divorce is final?
Often before, for tax reasons: a married couple filing jointly can exclude up to $500,000 of gain on a primary home, a single filer $250,000. But timing also depends on the market, the case, and who is living there. The $250k / $500k rule.
How long does a divorce take in Colorado?
At least 91 days from filing and service. Uncontested cases often finish in three to six months. Contested cases with a house, retirement accounts and kids commonly run a year or more. The process, step by step.
The workshop, without the drive
Every talk from the live workshop, online, free, any time.
The live workshop puts a family-law attorney, a certified financial planner, a mortgage lender, a title company representative, a marriage and family counselor and a real estate professional in one room, in person and on Zoom for a Saturday morning. It is free and there is no sales pitch.
Most people cannot make a Saturday, and many do not want to be seen walking in. So the same six talks live here, rebuilt as short answers you can read tonight. Come to the room when you are ready. Or never. Both are fine.
Is this site for me?
“I am thinking about it.”
Nothing filed. You want to know what divorce would actually change before you say a word. Start with the house, then what it costs.
What to gather quietly“I was just served.”
You have 21 days to respond in Colorado, and the automatic injunction already applies to both of you. Here is what to do this week.
First steps“We are in the middle of it.”
Disclosures are due, mediation is coming, and the house has to be decided. This is where the numbers matter most.
The house, decided“It is final. Now what?”
Getting a name off the mortgage, rebuilding credit, buying again on one income, and the deadlines in the decree.
After the decreeWho is behind this?
Divorce Decisions is published by The Kenna Real Estate Group at Keller Williams DTC, a Colorado real estate team in Centennial that has worked with divorcing homeowners across the Front Range since 2002. We are the real estate professional at the workshop, and we built this site because people were making the biggest financial decision of the divorce, the house, without anyone explaining the math. We are not attorneys, accountants or lenders. When a question belongs with one of them, we say so and point you to the right person.
Where to go next
- The house: keep, sell or buy out
- The Colorado divorce process
- Gray divorce in Colorado
- The virtual workshop
- Reserve a workshop seat
- Why a divorce realtor
- Divorce realtors in Denver on kennarealestate.com
- Search every home for sale in Colorado
- Meet Mike Oswald at Rate
- Help lines and self-help centers
- Call or text 303-955-4220: a live person answers
- Book a free discovery call
Call your Colorado divorce agent
Questions about the house, the deed or the decree?
Call us today to talk through your situation and how we can help. A live person answers. Not a robot, not a phone tree.
Ask us about the house
Tell us where you are in the process and what you are trying to figure out. We will answer honestly, including when the honest answer is to wait. Free, confidential, and nobody sells you anything.
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