Before you file or respond
The Colorado divorce checklist
Within 42 days of the case starting, both of you have to file a sworn financial statement and hand over three years of records. Gathering it now, quietly, is the single most useful thing you can do before you talk to anyone. Here is the list, in the order it comes up.
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Three years of everything
Tax returns, pay stubs, bank, retirement and debt statements, insurance, the deed and the mortgage.
Value, payoff, title
A written valuation, the payoff statement, the deed, the HELOC if any, the property tax bill.
Your own account, a frozen credit file
Open one account in your name. Freeze the bureaus. Do not drain anything joint.
Sell, hide, cancel, post
The injunction will forbid it anyway, and the sworn statement will show it.
Copy three years of financial records, get a written valuation and a payoff statement on the house, open a checking account in your own name, freeze your credit, write down what you own and owe as of today, and do not move, sell, hide or cancel anything. Then read the process page and decide who to call first.
1. Documents the sworn financial statement will ask for
- Income: three years of federal and state tax returns with W-2s and 1099s; the last three months of pay stubs; profit-and-loss statements if self-employed.
- Bank and investment accounts: the last 12 months of statements for every account, joint and individual.
- Retirement: the most recent statements for every 401(k), IRA, pension, PERA, TSP or annuity, plus a statement dated near the wedding for anything opened before the marriage.
- Debts: current statements for every mortgage, HELOC, car loan, student loan and credit card, with the balance and whose name is on it.
- Insurance: health, life (with beneficiaries), auto, homeowner’s and umbrella policies.
- Business interests: formation documents, the last three years of business returns, and any buy-sell agreement.
- Agreements: a prenup or postnup, if one exists.
- Kids: childcare, tuition and medical costs, and the current schedule.
2. The house
- The deed (from the county clerk and recorder, or the closing package) showing how title is held.
- The mortgage statement and a payoff quote from the servicer; the same for any HELOC.
- A written valuation dated now. We provide a Smart Pricing Report free to both spouses; an appraisal is $550 to $800. Which one you need.
- The purchase documents (price, date, down payment source) and receipts for major improvements; both matter for taxes and for any separate-property claim.
- Property tax bill and HOA statements.
- Photos and a condition list of the house as it is today. Deferred maintenance is a real deduction and a real argument later.
3. Money steps to take now
- Open a checking account and one credit card in your own name; route your pay there.
- Freeze your credit at Equifax, Experian and TransUnion. Pull your reports and list every joint account.
- Photograph or download balances of every joint account as of today.
- Change passwords on your own email, phone and financial logins. Turn on two-factor.
- Build two budgets: one household as it is, and yours alone. A CDFA can help; so can the workshop.
- If you receive or expect support, understand that a lender will need six months of receipts and three years of continuance before it counts.
4. What not to do
- Do not empty, hide or move joint money. Do not sell, gift or “lend” property to relatives.
- Do not cancel insurance or drop your spouse from a policy.
- Do not stop paying the mortgage to make a point. It is your credit too.
- Do not sign a quitclaim deed, a listing agreement or a refinance deadline without advice.
- Do not post about the divorce, the house or the money online. Buyers, judges and opposing counsel all read.
- Do not agree to keep a house you have not been pre-approved to carry alone.
5. Who to call, in what order
If you are unsafe
National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233, text START to 88788. Then an attorney about a protection order.
Help linesFor the forms
Your district’s self-help center, free. Denver: 1437 Bannock St., Room 281, 303-606-2442.
Your countyFor the law
A family-law attorney, even for one consultation. Colorado Legal Services (303-837-1313) if income-eligible.
Legal aidFor the house
A divorce real estate specialist for the valuation and the options, and a lender for what you can carry alone. Call or text 303-955-4220.
Why a divorce realtorWhere to go next
- The Colorado divorce process
- What a divorce costs in Colorado
- Just served? Start here
- Maintenance (alimony) in Colorado
- Mediation, collaborative or court
- The divorce checklist
- Your county court
- What happens to the house
- The virtual workshop
- Help lines and self-help centers
- Do-it-yourself divorce in Colorado on kennarealestate.com
- Call or text 303-955-4220: a live person answers
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