Underwater and divorcing
Short sale and divorce in Colorado
The house is worth less than the loan, neither of you can carry it alone, and the divorce needs it gone. A short sale is a sale the lender agrees to accept for less than it is owed. Here is how one runs when two spouses, two attorneys and a court are also involved.
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Sold short, not sold fast
The lender accepts the sale proceeds and releases its lien for less than the balance. It approves the price, the costs and the buyer. Three to six months is normal.
Both sign everything
Authorization, hardship letter, financials, listing, contract, approval. One refusing spouse stops it; the court can order cooperation.
Get the waiver in writing
Colorado lenders can pursue the unpaid balance after a short sale unless the approval letter waives it. Read that line before you sign.
Forgiven debt can be income
A 1099-C may follow. The federal principal-residence exclusion no longer applies to discharges after 2025; insolvency may. Ask a CPA.
A short sale in a Colorado divorce works when three things line up: the house is genuinely underwater after selling costs, both spouses will sign, and the lender gets a complete hardship package. The divorce itself is a recognized hardship. Expect three to six months, expect the lender to set the price, and get the deficiency waiver in writing or do not close.
When a short sale is the right tool in a divorce
- The payoff plus about 7 percent in selling costs is more than the house will sell for. Get the number in writing first.
- Neither spouse can carry the payment alone, and neither can qualify to refinance.
- A foreclosure has started or will; the Public Trustee sale date is far enough out to market the home.
- Neither of you wants to hold the house as a rental tied to your ex for years.
How it runs with a divorce in the middle
The divorce-specific traps
- One spouse stops paying to force it. A missed payment lands on both credit reports and does not speed the approval. The injunction and the temporary orders decide who pays; the lender does not care.
- One spouse will not sign. The court can order the sale and, if needed, authorize a signature under C.R.C.P. 70. The path through each refusal.
- The deficiency is split in the decree but not waived by the lender. The lender can collect from either name on the note regardless of the decree. Waiver in writing, or the decree must address who pays.
- The 1099-C arrives in one spouse’s name. Agree in the decree how forgiven-debt income is reported, and talk to a CPA about insolvency.
Questions people ask
Do we have to be late on the mortgage to short sell?
Not always. Some servicers evaluate an imminent, documented default; others require delinquency. Do not miss payments on anyone’s advice without asking the servicer and a HUD-approved counselor first (Colorado Foreclosure Hotline 1-877-601-4673 (HOPE), free HUD-approved counseling).
Can one spouse buy the house in a short sale?
No. Lenders prohibit sales to related parties, including a spouse, in almost every program.
Who pays the commission?
The lender allows it out of the proceeds in the approval. You do not bring money to closing for it.
Will the short sale stop the foreclosure?
Only if the servicer confirms a postponement in writing. A contract in review does not automatically stop the Public Trustee clock. Foreclosure and divorce.
Is a short sale better than a foreclosure for my credit?
Usually less damaging and shorter to recover from, and it avoids the public sale. It is still a settled-for-less account.
Hard times, handled quietly
We have sold underwater houses, negotiated short sales and stopped foreclosure clocks for divorcing owners. Quietly.
A divorce with no equity, two incomes that just became one, and a lender who does not care about the decree is the file we see most in a down year. The Kenna divorce real estate team, led by Damon L. Chavez, Certified Real Estate Divorce Specialist, runs the numbers first and tells you the truth: sell, short sale, hold, or fight the foreclosure.
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Where to go next
- Short sale and divorce
- Foreclosure and divorce
- Upside down in the house
- Divorce with no savings
- The stay-at-home parent's divorce
- How to afford a divorce in Colorado
- Staying in the house with the kids
- Living on retirement income after a gray divorce
- Living on one income: the first year
- Sell the house
- Keep the house
- Help lines and self-help centers
- Mike Oswald at Rate
- Book a discovery call
- Call or text 303-955-4220: a live person answers
- Get the free divorce-home guide (PDF)
Call your Colorado divorce agent
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Ask about the house, quietly
Tell us the balance, what you think it is worth, and whether anyone has missed a payment. We will send both spouses the same net sheet: sold, short-sold and kept. Nobody is contacted without permission.
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